Bible verses about dating and courtship
That kind of attitude and motivation will ultimately lead to a relationship ending in disaster.
Even very well-meaning, God-loving Christian couples can fall into the trap of selfishness when it comes to relationships.
Sadly, this is a very self-centered way of entering into a relationship.
This view is all about pleasing ourselves—not loving and serving another person.
Through it all, remember to keep God as the most important person in your life (Galatians ; Colossians 3:5), never a romantic interest.
You should never place anything or anyone over God because that is considered the sin of idolatry (Galatians ; Colossians 3:5)—even if you mean very well and love the person unconditionally.
Is the person committed to becoming more like Jesus (Philippians 2:5) or do they lead a selfish life?